Monthly ArchiveJune 2016

ByDr. Berney

TMB Episode 74: Work Hard Play Hard (YouTube)

TMB Episode 74: Work Hard Play Hard (YouTube)

ByDr. Berney

Work Hard Play Hard (TMB74)

In our modern culture, we work more than twice as much as our hunter-gatherer ancestors. According to most researchers, hunter-gatherers “work” approximately 20 hours per week (7 days), whereas statistics suggest that modern Americans work approximately 45 hours per week (5 days). So in our “progressive” world, we actually work more than ever before.
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ByDr. Berney

Breeding Bravery

Path in the Woods Attributed to Richard Webb

Path in the Woods
Attributed to Richard Webb

The word “brave” has many synonyms. Courageous.  Valiant. Heroic. But what does it really mean to be brave? And more importantly, how do we create bravery in ourselves and in our children?

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ByDr. Berney

TMB Episode 73: The Consequence of Competence (YouTube)

Episode 73: The Consequence of Competence

ByDr. Berney

TMB Episode 73: The Consequence of Competence

Why do we work so hard when it seems as though our hard work results in more work?  There are many explanations for why we work hard – our individual personality, what has been modeled for us, and our overall view about the purpose of life. But how do we accept the fact that when we do a good job, we tend to be “punished” by being asked (or told) to do more?
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ByDr. Berney

Paedeia Episode 26: 2016 PCSB Candidate Forum (YouTube)

Paedeia Episode 26: 2016 PCSB Candidate Forum

ByDr. Berney

Paedeia Episode 26: 2016 PCSB Candidate Forum

This podcast is the audio from a forum sponsored by the Citizens for Better Educational Leadership (CBEL) and comprised of the candidates for the 2016 Polk County School Board election. Dr. Berney served as the moderator and nine of the 11 candidates for school board were present. While the candidate forum is specific to Polk County, many of the issues discussed are relevant to those living in other districts and states. As a result of the acoustics in the room,  the audio is not great. Nonetheless, we wanted to share it because the forum was a great way to learn more about the candidates and their positions on various issues. Read More

ByDr. Berney

TMB Episode 72: Independent and Self-Sufficient

TMB Episode 72: Independent and Self-Sufficient

ByDr. Berney

TMB Episode 71: Personality Tests and Tribalism (YouTube)

TMB Episode 71: Personality Tests and Tribalism

ByDr. Berney

TMB Episode 72: Independent and Self-Sufficient

In this podcast, Dr. Berney discusses the difference between being independent and being self-sufficient. As parents, it is important that we use our child’s developmental drive for independence to build competence and self-esteem. Instead of doing everything for our child – “because it is faster” – it is critical that we allow our children to try, fail, and then try again. It is through this cycle that they become truly self-sufficient.
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